If you could heal from your loss – whether through business, bankruptcy, a relationship or even the death of a beloved mate, child or pet, wouldn’t you want to?
- Heal your grief, bereavement, remorse and sorrow
- Reveal the hidden order your life events
- Grow your appreciation for what is and what has been
- Increase your vitality and enthusiasm for living
- See the blessings from even the most challenging events in your life
- Clear distracting emotions
- Awaken your mind to an underlying inherent order
Wikipedia defines grief in the following way: “Grief is a multifaceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something to which a bond was formed. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, spiritual, and philosophical dimensions. While the terms are often used interchangeably, bereavement refers to the state of loss, and grief is the reaction to loss”
Grief is often misunderstood as a sign of love for the person who has passed. A common misperception is that grieving for someone is a sign of love for the person who has passed. Consider this: Imagine if you were to pass on, would you want those who love you to be suffering for days, weeks, months or years? Or would you love for them to be living an amazing life in which they honor the many gifts you brought to their life and the gifts inside of them?
If grief is holding you back in your life, now is the time to take a deeper look at your path to healing.
I have had the privilege of helping individuals who, often in a matter of hours, transform their deep pain into heartfelt appreciation so they unburdened themselves from years of suffering. You don’t have to wait years to heal.
Grief can become a prison preventing you from moving on with your life and fulfilling your reasons for being alive, and prolonged grief can create a cascade of suffering that blocks your ability to live an inspiring life. There are various emotions associated with grief, such as bereavement, remorse, sorrow, sadness, guilt, and a sense of loss or even depression for the person, or that which is no longer in your life. It can overwhelm your life, but even if you’ve been feeling these painful emotions for a long time, you can heal.
My clients who have struggled with grief and loss, include a business leader grieving for 19 years due to the loss of a sister from a tragic accident that not only healed the grief but gained a new vision for a philanthropic project and new vision for life. Only weeks following the sudden passing of her spouse, a Hollywood actress avoided years of suffering and was able to give herself permission to move forward in her life and accept her dream role. There is also a CEO who was forced into mandatory retirement and was able to move from sorrow into uncovering his next inspired chapter of life. After the loss of a baby, a health care professional was able to see new possibility and potential for growing her family.
It is normal to feel emotion and even pain following a loss. However, it isn’t necessary to suffer in order to remember your love for someone. You can celebrate their life even more fully by finding the blessings of their life and yes, even their death.
If you would love to have certainty, love and gratitude in your heart for the person you have been grief, I can help. If you want to be able to feel the presence and power of the person (or situation) you have been grieving AND see the perfection of what has been, apply for a Real Conversation.